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Bullying Part #1

9/28/2013

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Bullying has been studied for many years in many countries defining it as the dehumanizing experience that manifests itself in the form of rumors, name-calling, physical or psychological abuse, social exclusion and many other degrading forms. However, as every person is different, bullies are so too. In short, a bully is someone who thinks possesses power beyond comprehension, where the need to “show-off” its dominance against classmates, co-workers, or anyone close becomes an obligation. Many argue that bullies lack of self confidence but Allen (2006) argues that scientists have been battling with the question aggression and self-esteem, and to simplify everything: they link the two. However, she made an extensive research on self-esteem and its true meaning.

Baumeister, Campbell, Krueger, and Vohs (2004) mentioned self-esteem is constantly viewed as a communal problem for Americans, who tend to worry that lack or insufficient self-esteem leads to a life with various undesirable behaviors. Prof. Baumeister (1996) challenged that bullies in fact, hold favorable and perhaps inflated views of themselves.  He also reviewed several empirical studies on how murderers and rapists respond to self-defining statements, he pointed out that these individuals firmly believe they are superior, not inferior. However, here I would like to argue that when answering these type questions people tend to go for what they think is the right answer and/or provide with information they would like to read and believe about themselves. 



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Hold On! Love your home

9/11/2013

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The average person spends 182 days in the shower during their lifetime. This period making ourselves presentable to the outside world is both a blessing and burden, scraping valuable minutes from writing  tweets, contracts and rent checks in exchange for clean, smoother, healthier-looking skin™

A consumer of time now realizes that half a year of one’s lives is spent showering, they want to make the most use of these 10 minutes and not elongate the process. Think to how many times you’ve  dropped your shampoo or knocked over your shower caddy- a probable half a minute added onto your shower. This is another 10 days of your life lost in the shower. A 10 day vacation in Jamaica is now gone (or having watched all the episodes of Lost & Battlestar Galactica combined), is this the opportunity cost you’re willing to make? 



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